If you’re enjoying the Blogs For/By Single Women series, here’s another one for you. It’s called Single Girl’s Guide to Self Discovery 40.0. Written by a forty-year-old woman who has been divorced, remarried, then divorced again, this blog offers a different perspective than those of the previous two blogs mentioned in this series.
Scratch “might be”…he or she is married. This scenario deserves careful research and lots of questions. Also, be advised that in some states (e.g. here in TX) there isn’t even such a thing as “legal separation”. Being involved with someone who is “separated” may mean the spouse (and that’s what that other person is, frankly) may not exactly feel the same way or be on the same page as your date. Proceed with caution-after all, there’s already an admission going on here that s/he’s married! Guys, this is a good way to get shot at. Think about it.
When describing what you are looking for in someone, be sure to be as descriptive as possible. If you don’t like someone who drinks and smokes, then be sure to mention this in your profile.
As mentioned, you can look through the many profiles of others and create your own. It’s not difficult to create your profile and it just takes a few minutes. You give a general description of yourself, along with your interests. No need to get too personal at this point. Make sure your information is accurate and don’t forget to include a recent photo or two. This will increase your responses by up to a third.
Once you have joined an http://couplefyt.com service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, it’s a woman’s world still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.
This is an ideal message because its talking statements, it does not involve commenting on her physical appearance and lastly it doesn’t make her feel forced to have to respond and it removes the pressure on her because your message doesn’t really indicate you care whether or not she responds. As a bonus it also tells her a little bit more about your personality in that you also see the bright side of things. It will reveal to her that you are not needy and that you have independence and that you are taking control of the conversation. You are sending a high level of dominance that women actually desire for men to do.
Another reason I hear from guys about why it is hard to date beautiful women, is that they don’t know where to meet them. Well, I’ll give you a hint. They are probably not hanging out where the wings are 25 cents a piece. If you want to attract and date beautiful women, then you need to start hitting the trendier upscale clubs, online dating sites, and even just during normal daytime activities.